In a recent post, performance psychologist Dr. Julie Gurner offered a candid take on what separates successful individuals from those who stay stuck—emphasizing action over excuses.

“Financial success often demands difficulty… and most would rather discuss why it can’t be done, than try,” said Dr. Gurner in a post on X. “At the end of the day: Complaining about obstacles is infinitely easier than confronting them.”

She concluded the message with: “Complaining is a Countersignal… Shots on Goal, eventually hit the goal.”

Gurner’s framework frames complaining as a psychological “countersignal”—a habit that signals resistance rather than resolve. Her point: those who take repeated shots, despite failure or discomfort, are the ones who ultimately succeed.

This mindset aligns with peak performance research showing that resilience, not talent or resources, is the most consistent predictor of success. While most people stall at the appearance of difficulty, high achievers reframe adversity as a proving ground.

Dr. Gurner is a clinical psychologist and performance expert known for her work with high-net-worth individuals, elite performers, and entrepreneurs. Gurner’s content focuses on mental conditioning, personal excellence, and dismantling psychological barriers to wealth and success.